On Birthday Spankings

Some spankings can certainly be very sensual and even erotic.
The concept of a ‘birthday spanking’ can either stimulate or flatten any desire or interest in being spanked. Although it’s mostly always in fun, a spanking on your birthday might not be something everyone wants to experience.

Would be interesting to hear the take of those out there who enjoy the spanking arts on the concept & ‘tradition’ of being given / or giving a so-called ‘birthday’ spanking.

Is it really nothing more than an excuse to spank someone?

Wouldn’t just telling the person “I want to spank you” be sufficient?

Numerology & Magic Numbers

Ah – 11:11 – a fantastic time in any day. As well as 11:22, and 22:22 and 22:11. Those who know, understand.

The rest do not.

Important.

Important. It’s a word we see around us in our daily life, especially if we find ourselves in a business or corporate environment. A memo labeled important comes out; a news story is released that’s important, and so on.

The word means something like: highest priority, not to be missed, pay attention to this, etc. (No, I’m not going to quote from the dictionary.)

In the context of the Dark And Kinky Arts (DAKA) including spanking, BDSM, erotic massage, nudity, bondage and other various forms of play – and role play – and many others, I wonder what exactly it is that’s important. Is the important part the thoughts involving these things, or the anticipation of them happening, or the actual happening itself? Or is the important part of all this simply to have fun, enjoy life, and receive and give pleasure to another?

Or – is it all just not important at all and winds up being only a method to spend time?

Is Spanking all There is?

I wonder about people interested in spanking – erotic or otherwise…

Is spanking all there is to the connection?

Or are there BDSM, whip, hot wax and possible bondage interests in there too?
Some make use of mutual spanking interests to carry them over to anything from

• wild sex
• more spanking
• playing while nude
• dripping hot wax on skin
• bondage and restraint
• flogging and/or whipping

Comments?

Visuals of Spankability

My recent trips to the Texas Renn Fest were very productive. Shot lots of great images for the book – and saw many curvy beings worthy of a good spanking. Some of the darling ladies dress for the occasion – and for the kink itself.

Full nudity isn’t required – some of the females there project a message of “I deserve to be spanked” so clearly, that it would be easy to walk up to them and ask them directly. Of course, I haven’t done that, but I’m sure that someone will during the course of their visit to RennFest. My book of images from RennFest will be coming out soon – it’s a collection of images ranging from the bands and musicians, across to individual images of people and impressions and close up shots – and then onward to photographs to show the desires of the fantastic people there.

Next year (2010) I’ll search for an insight into those who camp at RennFest – as well as those who live their life |and kink| in a $100,000 RV/Diesel Bus.

Texas Renn Festival

The Texas Renn Festival in Plantersville was fantastic this year. I usually visit a couple of times – this year I went three times.

I shot with 2 cameras and saw many spankable images. Lord Randolph and his darling hoard of female darlings wearing chainmail is the usual hot point of the show at the NOON parade. Some of them look like potential models; some look like Miss Piggy in a latex wrap.

But it’s all good – it’s huge fun, and I wish it was happening year round….
People are gracious and fun and exciting there.

On the topic of erotic spanking…

Once again, I have been blasted with the corporate travel cannon. But I’m back. Traveling for business is fine, but it gets old. People are impressed but it’s not my style.

Have met a number of great and fantastic people interested in massage, spanking and other such adult erotic pleasures.
I recently took an industrial television assignment – to be TD for a month in a private studio. The ROI is great; the hours aren’t.

Also connected with a fabulous group with kinky thoughts in mind – it was pure luck that I made the connection. Have met a number of great people through that connection. I’ll reveal more here with their permission.

My photo book projects are still in the works – and I’m still looking for a ’special one’ to photograph for more than just a couple of days.

My most recent and intensive photography book project is in the prepro (pre production) stage – I still have many images to edit, and then sequence to make them have some sense. The Texas Renn Festival is a yearly thing here in the Houston area – I’ll let people know when the book comes out. Many photogs shoot like crazy and then toss something out there – but I don’t.

Quality images and hopefully interesting content are more important to me than just making something.

I’m going to attempt to blog here on a regular basis, just as my friends in other parts of the USA and in UK do.

I’m a poet and didn’t even know it

I found a new friend named T,
She really enjoys spanking me,
A spanking I dread,
She uses her hand, her paddle, and –
Turns my buns impossibly red.

Spankables in Public

Seeing spankable people in public is always refreshing. We might see 10-20 possible ’spankos’ in our work and travels in a month, but I’ve always wondered how many of these people (male or female) are actually aware that they have a demeanor and/or physical presence suitable for spanking. Comments?

Creative Use of Stone Slab

This is natural stone. Dimensions are 12 inches x 6 inches x 1 inch thick. Origin is Turkey – probably volcanic in origin. What is this doing in a spanking blog, you might ask… Place this piece of natural stone in the freezer and once you have completed a spanking session with your spankee – take it out of the freezer and have that just reddened bottom sit on it –

It keeps the cold, and it’s better than corner time. Yes, it can also be heated up for the same purpose – but be careful not to burn your dear subject’s bare buns with the stone. Once the bare buns are nice and cold from sitting on it – it might be time to tan them again.