Garden Party
For years, I have been interested in the fine art of spanking and getting together with like minded people in a comfortable environment. I had the opportunity to go to a ‘party’ a few evenings ago, and talked with a few people. What amazed me was the lack of interaction and connection between people there. Kinksters are usually very easy going and will talk to almost anybody about anything.
I found the ‘party’ to be very closed and the tiny clique islands within the group as a whole really formed the overall structure of the overall group. It’s natural that people will gravitate toward those they know, but as I’ve heard from people many times, a lot of groups really don’t want new members – they only look for a contribution, and don’t extend themselves to give new people an opportunity to connect.
Following one’s instinct is a long and difficult process to learn, but based on my instinct, this particular group can go fly a kite. If their members don’t have the decency to come over and talk and engage newer people, they’re not worth the time.
I’d be interested in hearing from people and fellow spanking enthusiasts about their experiences with groups in their locale.
I’ve been to three of this group’s events and from the indoor gargoyle pigeons who sit on the couch during the entire time to the holier-than-thou types who show off their violet wand expertise, I’m not impressed. It’s like someone put quaaludes in the water or something. Maybe it’s the fluoride. It would have been more exciting to go to a garden party and drink tea.
In any case, I won’t be visiting this group again.
