Finesse of Spanking

The finesse of spanking – or receiving one is based on the mindset of both the spanker and the spankee.

I believe that (as many do) the fine art of spanking is a connection between two (2) like-minded people to experience something very personal together. It’s different than sex; a mutually agreed on spanking can take on a magical feeling for both involved. It doesn’t need to be a punishment, and it doesn’t need to be hard or cause pain. The following might help to awaken your spanking senses…

Have you ever been been:

• Spanked with a feather?
• Spanked with a piece of leather?
• Lashed with a thin rubber hose?
• Stripped in front of others?
• Drizzled with honey and have it licked off?
• Put over someone’s knee in a rainstorm outside?

All of these generate fantastic scenarios and possibly fantasies. Maybe fantasies to be discussed and possibly turned into reality at some time in the future. The finesse and magic of spanking, whether giver, or receiver, is a purely erotic act that, in the right environment, and in the right lighting, can be as hot as intimate sex itself.