Questions | questions | questions

A few of my friends and spanking enthusiasts have been asking me questions and aside from just giving my own opinions and viewpoints as answers, I thought that a general public group interested in the wonderful art of spanking might better answer these inquiries. So, here are the questions I most receive as well as the concerns. Anyone interested in adding comments or suggestions – or yes, still more questions is welcomed to do so.

Questions:

Isn’t that spanking thing kinky? What happened to normal sex?

You mean there’s spanking parties where both males and females get spanked?

Why would a normal adult allow someone else to spank them? Especially at a party…?

Who likes spanking more – males or females?

Oooh, I’d like to watch a girl spanking another girl…

I could never watch a male spanking another male – that’s sick…

Y’all don’t really spank hard do you?

Are most of the spanking pictures and videos faked?

What’s so exciting about being spanked?

Is this spanking thing really a cover for a sexual fantasy?

Spanking parties are just orgies.

Those are the basic questions in a nutshell – anyone wishing to comment on them or any of them is welcomed to do so.

Thanks, Royce

Getting back up to speed and in contact

Today was spent sifting through old contacts (and new ones too) in order to reconnect with the world of spanking. After sending out about thirty carefully constructed emails to a number of groups and organizations involving themselves with spanking on all levels, I actually received 4 replies with some indicated interest.

Spanking people are careful and don’t communicate too clearly sometimes, mainly because they’re busy working and allowing their minds to run away with themselves. I’m grateful for the replies I received and hope to generate some discussion here as a result.

Something I’ve always wanted to know: Why are SO many people into spanking? It can’t be because of a sexual connection to spanking, since probably the greated majority of people into it don’t relate sex and lovemaking with put across the back of the couch and strapped.

Makes one wonder…

Finally back at it again…

I’ve been away and out of pocket for a while, tending to business in a few different places. The push of business and the holiday season clashed and crashed together, but I made it through it all. And business is doing well, too.

Haven’t really done much in the way of spanking, but it’s time to get involved again. I may have an opportunity to shoot some production stills for a small spanking video, but that’s still up in the air. If I do, I’ll post as much in the way of details as possible.

In the meantime – be good, or be very,very bad.

Royce

Email from Rodger

Rodger is a great friend from years ago – we worked together and our wives became good friends. The wives are gone – and have been gone for a long time, but Rodger and I have stayed good friends. I know he found a new girlfriend, but not the usual type. He found a girl who’s into spanking like nobody else.

There’s no better way to describe it than by just including his email to me, so here it is:

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Hey Royce,

I hope you don’t think that I’ve lost my mind after you read this email.

As you know, Robyn and I have been history for a long time. Being single
and running this hotshot business have been great for me. You and I are
both 50 and we still have lots of fun ahead of us. Well, here’s the
bombshell: I just proposed to my new girlfriend  – we’ve been together
for about eight months now, and we really love eachother. Melanie is
still considering my marriage offer, but I think she’ll say yes.

Since she’s 25, her parents have a lot of influence over her, but also
since she’s into spanking, I have a lot of influence over her too.

She’s really a darling, and sharp as hell, and she loves to be spanked.
So far, I’ve only given her short spankings, and not very hard – I don’t
want to really hurt her – I’m crazy about her.

She keeps on telling me that she wants it harder and wants to have a
red behind for a few days. I still have one of your double-sided leather
straps and I showed it to her the other day. She held it like it was her
new baby and told me that she wanted to experience it on Turkeyday.

So – we’re cooking and having a few drinks and just relaxing here at
home, and I’m sure her mind isn’t on the heavy leather strap at the
moment, but it will be just before dinner. She’s going over the dining
room table and she’ll her little lovely buns heated with the strap.

Ah you should see her – and you will, she’s lovely and as kinky as hell.
I’ll let you know when she decides about being my wife.  Ooh, then
she’ll get it more often. She’s perfect for me – you need to find one
like her for yourself.

Seeya, give a call when you get a chance!

Rodger

Wednesday before Thanksgiving activities

In addition to the usual emails I sent and received, I spent quite a few hours today working on my long set-aside paddle project. I started work on this custom paddle about 3 months ago, and was just too involved with other stuff to pick it up again until today. Some needed shape sanding and then some fine sanding work helped get this little paddle closer to being given the pleasure of warming a pair of buns. This paddle is fairly small, but it’ll be very effective. I’ll use the razor-blade inlay motif I used in a couple of other paddles made a few years ago. People have commented on the razor-blade and have asked if it’s a real one – and yes, it is. It’s become my logo for this series of paddles and signifies the sharp sting and lasting warmth generated by a good spanking.

I’ll post some images when I get closer to completion. I’m deciding whether to put a weight in the handle to give it a slightly sturdier feel in the hand of the spanker. Maybe I’ll make 2 versions and let some test-spanking give me the answer.

Need for Original Production

I know that someone will tell me to quit already and start writing more instead of concentrating on the creation of the images for the blog header, but I’ve decided to shoot completely new | original | images just for the header. Ideas are welcomed, but I’m picky and want the right type of image or images here.

Setup and Details

Although most people usually set up something like this blog in a jiffy and then start hammering away at the keyboard, I did things differently. Since I wanted to create a somewhat interesting header image, I went through the many thousands of images I have shot over the years to find some suitable ones. I guess I’m just picky – and I don’t think I’m done. The header image thus far is OK, but I need to simplify it and include some images that really pertain to the erotic and exotic aspects of spanking for pleasure. I’ll keep looking through my images – I should be able to find some good ones that will appeal to both male and female humans alike.

The beginning.

Lately I’ve been very busy with my ventures and other activities, but I finally started this blog. I’ve been wanting to create a forum for those interested in the pleasures of mutual spanking for a long time and it finally got its start.

I expect to work on the blog as I have time (and ideas) and will certainly entertain ideas on any related topics from my readers. There are a number of people I want to receive ideas from with regard to spanking between friends and partners, males and females, and also certainly male/male and female/female spankers and spankees.

Enjoy, give me your comments and we’ll all have fun.